So often, those things we tend to categorize as "coincidence" really aren't. God speaks in many different ways, and so often what we think of as random, hmm-that's-weird kinds of things are really God's voice speaking.
Here's an example.
So last night Emma prompted some family prayer. She asked how I was feeling, I mentioned that I'm worried/burdened/anxious about teaching Bible study and the preparation I'm doing, she said, "Let's pray about it." She got up, put her arms around me, and prayed for me. Right then and there.
(I know. How sweet and mature and amazing is that? Especially in a nine-year-old? As Beth says, some things are caught, some are taught--and she's getting it. I see such faith and practical obedience to God in her. Which is a whole 'nother post.)
After she prayed, I told her how much I appreciate her and how I see her doing what the Bible says--not worrying about anything, but turning our worries into prayer. As The Message says, "Instead of worrying, pray!"
So then she hops on her iPod, finds the passage, and emails it to me. (Tech savvy kid!)
Not ten minutes later, the phone rings. My dad is calling to tell me that my basement has flooded because of a blocked drain. In Denver. Where lot of my stuff--not to mention my friend's stuff--is stored.
Worry! Fret! Stress!
Feeling helpless, far away, and unable to do anything. Guilty that my dad and brother-in-law have had to leave dinner to go deal with it. Horrible that my friend who's living in my house has to deal with such a mess. Worried about what it's going to cost to fix it. Borrowing trouble about another potential problem Dad raised that needs to be addressed later in the spring about drainage away from the house.
And on and on and on.
And then I thought of the simplicity of what we'd just been talking about. "Shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns."
Coincidence that we'd just been talking about what to do with worry? With fretting? Not at all. Coincidence that we'd just been talking about the fact that God wants to know our concerns--all of them--even stuff that we somehow doubt he'd care about it? Nope.
So our prayers last night had a lot to do with houses and drains and water damage and plumbers and so on. They may not have sounded "holy" or "spiritual." But something tells me they sounded just fine to God.
Shape your worries into prayer.
I have to say that I love The Message. Its simplicity and directness communicate the truth of what we often pass over as familiar in a fresh and exciting way. Toben worked with Eugene Peterson as the publisher for The Message for a number of years, so it's a Bible close to our hearts.
Want to get a copy of The Message for yourself? Check out my Amazon shop here. You can also read more of it at biblegateway.com.
I love, love, LOVE The Message. LOVE. So fun that Toben worked w/EP on it!
Posted by: Marla Taviano | January 29, 2010 at 06:55 AM
"Coincidences are miracles where God chooses to remain anonymous."
Posted by: chapmanchick | January 29, 2010 at 07:24 AM
Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for sharing!
Posted by: Sandy | January 29, 2010 at 08:37 AM
So wonderful...so encouraging...so real.
That scripture from the Message impacted me recently and I wrote a post called "Stuff"...so I can relate...
http://helenw13.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/stuff/
Peace for your day,
Helen
Posted by: Helen at A Work of Heart | January 29, 2010 at 11:35 AM
Oh my, Emma's precious response brought tears to my eyes.
Posted by: Lora | January 29, 2010 at 12:21 PM
Emma's spiritual insight is just what I am hoping to foster in my two little daughters (we're about 7 yrs behind your family). How precious. This post was an excellent reminder that we are truly not to worry. God has it under control!
Thanks and bless you!
Brynn
Posted by: Brynn in CO | January 29, 2010 at 01:48 PM
You know, I'm praying. When will June get here? Anxiously anticipating your return.
Posted by: Holly @ Crownlaiddown | January 29, 2010 at 07:24 PM
So amazing of your daughter - wow!!
I have to say, I have never read the message. I wasn't sure I would really like the directness of it. But lately, I have found myself becoming interested.
Posted by: Kristy | February 01, 2010 at 06:31 AM
Thank you for posting this verse. I have been plagued by worry for a while and I found such comfort in reading these words.
Posted by: Lavidalori.blogspot.com | February 01, 2010 at 11:14 AM
Hi there. I happened across your blog recently and have found so much to take in that it's now saved as one of my 'top sites.' So I thought I should introduce myself. Thanks for this post. If I have children, this is what I hope it will be like. Blessings to you.
Posted by: Lora | February 01, 2010 at 03:18 PM
I'm a little late to the posting, but had to relay God's thumbprint from this week. On my birthday this past June, I picked Ps 46:10 for my verse for this year (See Debbie Macomber's Knit Together). After a long battle with pancreatic cancer, my mother died this Wednesday. Thursday, as I was turning to a new page in my book, A Grandmother's Guide to Praying for her Family; I saw that the verse I was praying for my family the day my mother died was Ps 46:10. "Be still and know that I am God."
Posted by: Leslie | February 06, 2010 at 10:28 AM
Part II-I popped back to my email after making this posting, my DIL had sent me a verse--Ps 46:10. God is so GOOD!
Posted by: Leslie | February 06, 2010 at 10:35 AM
Hi there,
I'm pretty late to this conversation but I thought I'd share some "coincidences" with you.
Last Spring of 2014, i used to travel nearly 2 hours from my town to go to a beautiful park. The views are breathtaking, the landscape is colorful and you can slip into peacefulness away from the chatter of the city. I fell in love with the place years ago when I interned in its neighborhood. Anyway, last Spring I would go there with the hope in my heart that one day I'd get to go there with someone special. We'd go and look at the views and eat ice cream together. I said a quick prayer about it and stored the hope away in my heart. It was a special place to me indeed.
Not too long after that, I applied to schools to transfer to, two of which were Nyack College in New York and NYU. I'm in my very late twenties, around that age when friends and family members are starting to get married and have kids. A friend of mine joking said to me, "maybe you'll find a husband in school!" I said, "Sure: If I go to Nyack I'll meet a Pastor. If I choose NYU, I'll probably meet a doctor". In another conversation with a new friend I met I said, "I'd like to meet someone as soon as school starts. Maybe we'll get engaged when I graduate".
Well... I guess I had no idea of the things I was saying nor did I have an idea that God was behind those things, because my second week of starting at NYU, I met a young man who's in his last year of med school who offered to take me to the park I hoped someone special would take me to. He was excited to take me there, in fact, at the end of our first date, he asked if I've ever been there before. I gushed and said "of course!" And went on and on about how much I loved the place but I've never been there at night when I'm sure it's the most beautiful. To that he replied, "how about I just take you there!" What's cutest is, he even bought me ice cream lol!
We're not a couple. At least not yet. There's a lot that still has to happen. Who knows if we'll ever get married, but I just thought it was so interesting those "coincidences" line up. The going to the park thing was a very intimate hope that I stored in my heart that only God would know I'd greatly appreciate. Who knows why God brought us together. But I appreciate how He brought all of those things together so seamlessly.
Although things are moving a tad slowly now, and I've endured a lot of confusion and doubt on my end of things, I still believe Gods hand is in this situation and hope to see how things turn out.
Posted by: KiLo | March 28, 2015 at 04:54 PM