"I love the Lord, because he hath heard my voice and my supplication."—Psalm 116:1.
Since today (Monday, July 11th ) is Joanne’s 6-month “stroke-iversary”, as well as her first day back at Spalding Rehab Hospital (this time in their Day Rehab program) http://www.spaldingrehab.com/rehab-programs/outpatient-programs/day-rehabilitation-program.htm, I (Papa) asked Joanne what she hoped to accomplish. We made a list, and then ordered it to take along. I thought her prayer warriors would like to see it. But I was convicted it needed to be preceded by another list of all the healing grace that our God has already poured out, so we can all offer great praise before daring to ask for more…
In the Christian pilgrimage it is well for the most part to be looking forward. Whether it is for hope, for joy, for consolation, or for the inspiring of our love, the future after all must be the grand object of the eye of faith. Looking into the future we see sin cast out, the body of sin and death destroyed, the soul made perfect and fit to be a partaker of the inheritance of the saints in light. Yet nevertheless the Christian may do well sometimes to look backward; he may look back to the hole of the pit and the miry clay from which he was dug - the retrospect will help him to be humble; it will urge him to be faithful. The particular objects which you are now to look back upon are the manifold and manifest answers to prayer, which God has given you. Take up that book which you ought often to read, the book of remembrance which God has written in your heart of his great goodness and continued mercies; and turn to that golden page wherein are recorded the instances of God's grace in having listened to your voice and having answered your supplications.
“Prayer Answered, Love Nourished”, http://www.spurgeon.org/sermons/0240.htm
Rev Charles Spurgeon 1859 (then age 25)
Praise to our Lord for all He has done in the last 6 months
Stroke: 7:36 AM Jan 11th
Clot cleared: about 11 AM, Jan 11th
Losing vital functions; surgery to remove skull “flap”: Jan 12th
Pulling at her 15 IV lines: Jan 13th
Audrey’s 1st visit: Jan 13th
Intracranial pressure peaked at 37: Jan 16th
Coughed: Jan 20th
EEG activity: Jan 20th
Regained consciousness: Jan 23rd
Opened eye: Jan 22nd
Reaction to being pinched (by neurologist!): Jan 24th
1st breathing on her own: Jan 24th
Tracheostomy & PEG feeding tube inserted: Jan 25th
Breathing tube out: Jan 26th
Sat up on side of bed: Jan 26th
Transfer to Kindred long-term acute care hospital: Jan 29th
1st transfer from bed
Hoyer transfer to sit in a chair Feb 1st
1st ice chips & swallowing: Feb 2nd
Smaller trach installed: Feb 2nd
Recognized object on her left side: Feb 2nd
1st “ride” on the incline board to about 60 degrees elevation: Feb 4th
1st brushed her teeth: Feb 4th
1st look at herself (of course with helmet on) in a full length mirror: Feb 6th
1st spoken word using one-way trach valve: Feb 7th
Held head up for a few minutes Feb 7th
Turned head towards mom: Feb 8th
Waved to a friend: Feb 8th
1st trip outside room- a chair ride down to gym for light therapy: Feb 9th
Writing legible sentences: Feb 10th
1st visit from Emma: Feb 11th
1st Popsicle: Feb 13th
1st Sprite & straw: Feb 16th
1st wheel chair ride: Feb 20th
Trach capped & Joanne talking: Feb 22nd
1st blog post: Feb 20th
Trach removed: Feb 24th
Solid food diet: March 1st
1st “real” shower: March 5th
Discharge from Kindred long-term acute care hospital & transfer to Spalding Rehab Hospital: March 15th (plus 39th birthday)
1st steps holding to “ballerina bar”: March 21st
1st pushed left leg while lying in bed: March 22nd
1st steps with single-sided walker: March 22nd
Skull flap restored: March 24th
1st stair step with great assistance from PT: ?
PEG (feeding tube) removed: March 30th
Climbed entire flight of stairs with assistance: March 30th
Walked ½ way to dining room: April 10th
Walking enough to get last daily blood thinner shot in stomach
1st haircut: April 13th
Certified to transfer into/out of car: April 14th
1st trip “outside” to PF Changs for lunch & stop home for kitty snuggle: April 16th
First worship back at Calvary Castle Rock: Palm Sunday? April 17th
Home visit with PT & OT to evaluate house: April 25th
Rode the Spalding mechanical bull: May 7th
Last daily blood draw from Ivan the Terrible: ?
Discharge from Spalding Rehab Hospital to home: May 13th
1st movement in left toes: late June
Resumed morning Bible devotions: late June
Enjoying reading on her new Kindle: late June
Dramamine + Phenergan controlling car ride nausea: about July 1st
Audibly reading somewhat slower: July 8th
Joanne’s goals upon her return to Spalding Day Rehab program
Balance Master evaluation by rehab to isolate cause of car nausea
Exercise plan for days not in rehab
Stretch Achilles tendon
Walk with new AFO (Ankle Foot Orthosis)
Walk with single point cane
Walk with no cane
Stand up unassisted with cane
Stand up unassisted
Type again, one-handed
Please, God, some use of my left arm
Grocery shopping
Cook dinner
Clean house
Do laundry
Stay home alone with girls
Stay home alone
Regain use of left arm
Shower unassisted
Run
Drive
Go back to seminary
Chuck
Rejoicing in all the wonderful miracles that God has done so far... trusting that He has so much more in store! Joanne, whenever I read from your blog, I am reminded of your Psalm 23 lessons... especially the hinge, "For you are with me." Praying that as you take on these new challenges that you will know the presence of our mighty God!
Love your Arizona Friend!
Kristy
Posted by: Kristy Hunt | July 13, 2011 at 01:55 PM
I am Joanne's age and have been following her and the entire family's journey since 11 January. Your entire wish list will be in my prayer list!
Posted by: Anné | July 13, 2011 at 02:00 PM
We will continue to pray these as a family. Everyone's faith that has been so revealed through this process has been so amazing to witness. Know that your entire family is treasured and valued.
Peace,
Kim Feth
A Siesta and follower of Joanne's blog (still check it daily)
Apex, NC
Posted by: Kim Feth | July 13, 2011 at 02:01 PM
Tearing up as I read this, remembering the God who "lifts us from the grave"... in Joanne's case physically as well as spiritually. Joanne, you will ROCK rehab. You are strong, thanks to God. You are healing, thanks to God. And you will persevere and emerge victorious... and all thanks again will be to our great God. Hugs!
Posted by: Nikki | July 13, 2011 at 02:04 PM
Joanne, my friend, you will have all that again, one day. Be patient for God has a plan for you. We may not like the timing but in HIS time all will be well again.
I am grateful for how far you have come. Looking back at the list of what had happened from January 11 until today. As I read, I kept saying I remember that and that. I cried. You are doing so good from this side looking in and I have no doubt that GREAT things will happen. You CAN do it!!
Much love & hugs,
Kimberly S.
P.S. I'm still those beach chairs for you, Audrey and Emma in Florida!
Posted by: Kimberly S. | July 13, 2011 at 02:07 PM
What amazing lists. It's strange to read the dates on the first one. I remember checking for updates so often, yet those dates seemed like longer stretches when happening. I love the new list. . . the vision and the hope. . . and when you consider how far you've come and the amazing God who created you in the first place, it's encouraging. Will print this out for prayer. Continued healing dear sister.
Posted by: Amy | July 13, 2011 at 03:18 PM
Praise and prayers. You have come so far, I will continue to pray for your goals.
Love you!
Posted by: Slchapin | July 13, 2011 at 03:19 PM
Hope this list will all work out for Joanne.
BTW, there is a great computer program, Dragon Naturally Speaking, which does amazing voice recognition and basically types out the spoken words as text for you in any application you want/have open (Word, Facebook, blog, google, etc). I used it when I had my arm broken.
You train it by reading a long text, and it does very well, even with accents so even if Joanne does not have her regular modulation back yet it should still work well.
And, it is only about $40.
Much much faster than typing with one finger or one hand....
Posted by: Sylvia | July 13, 2011 at 03:20 PM
God is so good and you have come so far!! Continuing to pray for 100% recover!
Joanne, keep your chin up, work hard, always Praise God and keep your eyes on Jesus. Praying and praying for you dear sister.
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Posted by: Child of God | July 13, 2011 at 03:30 PM
What a journey it's been! When you look back at where it started, you can see God's hand working on Joanne - restoring her bit by bit. I'm sure there is a lot that she has learned about herself and her God along the way. Praying that her list is met - and soon!
S&R xo
Posted by: seaweedandraine | July 13, 2011 at 04:06 PM
My family and I have been praying for you every single day and will continue to! You're an amazing woman with a super supportive family. You've made it through a lot of hurdles, and you'll make it through many more. Trust God and His timing. My husband had brain surgery 2.5 years ago, and they told us it would take a good full 2 year recovery...and it did. Sometimes we wanted things faster than his body could take it on, but in time, God healed his mind so that he is now functioning normally (well, whatever that is) and doing quite well. God will heal you, too, my sister in Christ.
Love and blessings..... Susan and family
Posted by: Susan | July 13, 2011 at 04:34 PM
Thank you for your post Chuck. Recovering from stroke takes time and hard work. Praising God for all He has done and will do for Joanne!
Joanne, Keep it up! One of the best notes I received from a family friend was to "Take it slow." 1. To make sure I was re-learning and remembering because reconnection takes many repetitions. 2. Also, to take time to remember God's love and faithfulness by giving time out to Him.
Rest is so important but keep at it especially on those good days. I'm at 20 months now and still lots to re-gain. We can do this!
With much love, Sara G
Posted by: Sara G | July 13, 2011 at 07:36 PM
Continuing to pray for you, Joanne!!! So proud & excited to see how far you've come and looking forward to seeing you accomplish all the rest! God is GOOD!
Posted by: Liz | July 13, 2011 at 07:57 PM
Oh my, I am so overwhelmed at such a list, looking backwards and forwards. No wonder your family is such a "wonder" to me. And Joanne, the queen of all "ultra- marathon" runners. I expect her every hope to be fulfilled and then some. To have been sovereignly called along on this journey of faith and prayer with a people I did not know has been a life-changing assignment, and I don't say that lightly. The LORD has been acknowledged in all your ways and His instructions and mercies have never failed, as He has and will continue to direct your paths to His greater glory. I believe that you will continue to see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living and in ever-increasing faith, because you have dared to walk it out in humility, transparency and audacious faith. Even in tears the eye has seen the rainbow, the promise. Cheering you on Joanne and all your loving family and also praying for Heather Noce and her miracles. "For such a time as this..."
A "siesta" from So. Cal
Posted by: Pam Houston | July 13, 2011 at 08:18 PM
Loved seeing the 'map' of miracles. All history is His Story and there is more to tell with this precious family. So glad to be one of many invited by the Holy Spirit to walk alongside in prayer.
Kathy from Idaho.
Posted by: Kathy Rivera | July 13, 2011 at 09:33 PM
Joanne-
I have been praying for you and your family since I read about you on Beth Moore's blog. Now I read Kristin's blog too. The list you have accomplished is amazing! Way to go! Such hard work! I will continue to pray for you and your list of things yet to come.
God Bless you and yours!
Cari in Iowa
PS: I also love it when your dad blog's...you are one blessed girl :)
Posted by: Cari in Iowa | July 13, 2011 at 09:45 PM
Weeping with all that God has done, it is amazing to read all of the miracles in a list by date. Why am I so surprised, it is God afterall, but in my human state, I am weeping from being overwhelmed by the proof of His mercy.
Joanne and Family, I am believing *and praying) that your new list will be fulfilled because God can do it.
Push, push through the doubt, push through the fear, push through the pain, believing in the next set of miracles coming your way.
Thank you for the privilege to witness God's work through Joanne.
Posted by: merlin | July 13, 2011 at 09:59 PM
Other things God did this year: Gave Joanne a stroke.
Posted by: Ewer | July 13, 2011 at 11:04 PM
Dear Joanne,
God give you the strength and love to reach your new goals. I keep praying for you and your family. And Big Hug. And Chuck Thank your for the update my heart was breaking white te line you wrote about the step.
Love and Blessings
Posted by: Eveline from the Netherlands! | July 14, 2011 at 01:09 AM
I have prayed for Joanne and your family almost daily since the stroke. I have never met any of you except through this blog. I continue to lift up your praises and requests. And now may I say that I love your posts "Papa" your writing is so encouraging and real. I hope you continue to blog here or start your own.
Posted by: Jill Strother | July 14, 2011 at 06:26 AM
I will continue to pray for Joanne and the whole family-I've been praying since I heard of the stroke. I will pray expectantly that all of her goals will happen!!Sending love.
Posted by: Jane | July 14, 2011 at 06:45 AM
Ditto to all of the above. I love your dad's posts.. he breaks it down for the entire family and followers. Waiting for Joanne to start blogging a bit!
laura
Posted by: laura | July 14, 2011 at 07:08 AM
What an amazing timeline! Still praying for Joanne and all of you!
Posted by: Laurie | July 14, 2011 at 07:10 AM
I love Papa's posts.
Joanne, you have such a phenomenal list of praises, I pray that the Lord in his mercy and loving kindness would continue to bless you with more.
Siesta love from Texas.
Elizabeth
Posted by: Elizabeth | July 14, 2011 at 08:17 AM
We are so grateful for all the love and support of Joanne's family and friends, which no doubt has played a huge role in her miraculous recovery. Thank you, Heims, for continuing to share your lives and being a blessing to us all.
Posted by: Danielacostaaz | July 14, 2011 at 08:30 AM
Praise his name. I got this, this morning. How wonderful to see His faithfulness to your family. I have followed, prayed and been amazed. HOLY IS HIS NAME!!!!!!!
This morning our friends told us their little baby girl Ellianna is not doing well. She was premature in birth. She had to have another shunt emergency surgery yesterday. They are asking for prayer that she will fight. Please pray with us.
Blessings to your family, Linda
Prairie Flower Farm
Posted by: Linda Stubbs Prairie Flower | July 14, 2011 at 08:50 AM
Tears. Prayers. And so much love to you Joanne.
Posted by: Lora Osburn | July 14, 2011 at 09:07 AM
I do not know you Joanne, but I cried reading the list and how far you have come. So many things we take for granted and are life sustaining functions like coughing and breathing on your own. I will never take things like that for granted again. I am about your age and my prayer has always been to be given enough life to see my children grow up. Toben once asked to pray as we were led. I prayed for you to be restored to your girls in some form. Today, I praise God as he restored you to your family.
Your list for recovery has once again floored me. I have been guilty of grumbling at too much laundry or cooking. No more. I will serve my family joyfully, humbly to be able to do so while praying in my heart for you to have the same ability. I do not know why you had to go through this Joanne, but in doing so and by the transparency of your family, you have witnessed. God bless you mightily and like Job may your future be mightier than your past.
Marina
Posted by: Marina | July 14, 2011 at 09:11 AM
Your beautiful post once again brings tears to my eyes! Such a tribute to the power of prayer!!! What a compassionate, loving, merciful God we serve. Only He knows what the future holds, and He will bring it to pass. I will be praying over this list!
Love in Jesus,
Caroline
Posted by: caroline | July 14, 2011 at 09:23 AM
Dear Chuck and Joanne,
I don't write much but just wanted to say how I am continually praying for you all. Joanne is blessed to have parents like you and your wife.
Hi Joanne from FL. Keeping you in my prayers and will especially pray for your left arm. Glad to hear you're reading. I'm enjoying Power Thoughts by Joyce Meyer.
God bless! Missi
Posted by: missi | July 14, 2011 at 11:59 AM
Thanks for sharing all that, Papa! I love you, Joanne!
Posted by: Marla Taviano | July 14, 2011 at 06:49 PM
I will continue to pray for you, Joanne, and for your family. My dad suffered a stroke several years ago. Although he is much older than you, it was still a shock to us all. This may give you a laugh -- since Dad couldn't manage zippers in the beginning, I bought jogging pants with elastic waistbands, something he had never worn. He thought they looked stupid and wouldn't wear them. I finally said "All right then, go to therapy in your boxers! I'm sure you'll give everyone a laugh." He wore the jogging pants after that.
Posted by: Judy | July 15, 2011 at 06:47 AM
Joanne-I don't think you know me, I am from AZ--go to Mission. I have been so blessed by reading your blog and after you had your stroke, I have almost daily checked this site. I pray for you and your entire family often. As I looked over the list your dad wrote on the things you have overcome--wow! Just know I will be praying for all of you. What an incredible journey you are on--not an easy one--I am reminded from 2 Corinthians 12:9 "my Grace is sufficient for you,for my power is made perfect in your weakness." I pray God will fill you with His strength today:)
Posted by: Donna Boschma | July 15, 2011 at 08:16 AM
Love to you all. The plan looks good! Thanks be to God for His sovereign care for us.
Posted by: Julie (Johnson) Powell | July 15, 2011 at 11:14 AM
yay Joanne! a good list indeed!
And something I might suggest - an article by Tom Thomas, who had a stroke at age 48, and used hippotherapy (therapeutic horse riding) to build back his muscle tone and balance -
http://www.strokenetwork.org/newsletter/articles/horses.htm
Colorado has many riding centers, heres one that i think might be close by ~ http://www.ctrcinc.org/programs/hippotherapy.html
Although it may seem odd, a horses movement at the walk mimics the human body 's movement at a walk - these are certified programs and are all done under strict supervision...all core muscles, even if the rider cant feel them yet, get worked to achieve better balance and strength, and well, horses are just plain fun to ride - a gift from God indeed!
(and yay God too !)
Posted by: janice | July 15, 2011 at 06:59 PM
Wow!! Our God is so good!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. The amazing list is definitely a list to be praising God for all the accomplishments you have made. He is praiseworthy is he not? You and your family have been in my prayers since I heard about it from the Living Proof blog. Continued prayers from a Siesta in Louisiana!
Posted by: Diane Conner | July 15, 2011 at 07:43 PM
Thank you for this post Papa. What a blessing you are to your daughter.
I have been following Joanne's journey and praying for her since I read about her on Beth Moore's blog. I will continue to pray for these new desires but will first praise God for the miracles He has already done. I am convicted when I see things on Joanne's list like doing laundry, cooking, driving, etc. -- things I take for granted and things I often complain about. I will be more thankful each day going forward for the ability to do these things for as long as God allows.
Much love and prayers,
Jennifer
Fort Worth, TX
Posted by: Jennifer | July 15, 2011 at 09:18 PM
Thank you for this post. I have been following this blog since Beth Moore alerted us to the prayer need. I continue to keep you in my prayers.
Our 63 year old vibrant pastor's wife passed away a week ago on their flight to the Philippines from a heart attack. It has been hard to process, but your post was so timely. I liked the the thought of looking forward and the sermon by Spurgeon. Thank you!
May God continue to help Joanne on her road to complete recovery.
Posted by: Cynthia | July 19, 2011 at 09:01 AM
Chuck-I love reading your posts. I have children Joanne's age and it has been very uplifting to me to read how you, as her parent, have dealt with this. God is amazing! I have been praying for Joanne and your family since January 11th when I heard the news from my son. I do not know Joanne and Toben, but my son and daughter in law do from Mission church in Az. I feel like I know all of you and someday, when we are all together forever, we will have a chat. May the good Lord continue to bless Joanne and all of you. He is doing a mighty work in this and He is not finished yet!
Posted by: Esther in Queen Creek, Az | July 24, 2011 at 08:03 AM
Ce que le Seigneur exceptionnelle poursuivre pour favoriser Joanne et la somme totale de vous. Il fait un travail acharné dans ce domaine et il n'est pas encore finalisé! Je ne peux pas échapper au sentiment que je sais que toute trace de vous et un jour, quand nous sommes tous comme une éternité, l'unité, nous allons avoir une conversation.
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